Monday 29 January 2018

SEEKING FORGIVENESS 2




The man went back home not feeling too happy this time, but he was still determined to return the next day. And so he did. Upon arrival, the old wise man said to him, “I can see you are really ready to make peace at last.”
“Yes,” replied the former slanderer, “I have realized my mistakes and really need your forgiveness.”
“Okay, just this last thing for you to do.”
“Say it and I will do!”

The wise sage looked at the hand of the other old man and saw the empty calabash. He continued, “Now you will have to go back to the cliff with the empty calabash. Go and gather all that is left of the fine flour back in it then bring it to me, and then I will fully forgive you.”

SEEKING FORGIVENESS

BY GO GUY:


There was a certain old wise man in a certain land. People all over the land came to him for various words of advice, counsels and wisdom; He was always respected by anyone that came in contact with him. Also in the same land, lived another certain old man that was envious of the wise sage, he never saw anything good about him. And he would wait along to slander the Old sage at every opportunity that presented its self. This went on for several years, even to the knowledge of the old wise sage, but he did or said nothing in retaliation against the envious old man to defend himself. He just however, walked quietly throughout the land like a deaf man and was even more respected by some people.


Then one day, the envious old man came to his senses. He realized that he had been wrong all along; despite all what he did to mar the reputation of the old wise sage he was still loved by many. So one day, he decided to go straight to the latter and apologize for all the wrong things he had said about him. And so he did.
Immediately he got to the house of the wise sage, the slanderous old man went down on his knees and began to apologize and seek the sage’s forgiveness. In response the sage quietly urged him to stand, and the former asked if he had been forgiven.
“There is just one thing,” said the sage, “that you will need to do in order for me to fully forgive you.”
“What is it wise old friend?” he continued, “Just tell me. I am ready to do anything to make things right between us.”
“Okay. By this time tomorrow, come to me with a calabash full of fine flour and I will tell you what to do next.”

Monday 8 January 2018

6 SECRETES TO KEEPING YOUR NEW YEAR RESOLUTION

 
How many New Year’s resolutions have you kept … for more than a week? If you haven’t made it to a month milestone–let alone a year–maybe you’re skipping steps that help you create resolutions that last.
We talked to six people who have kept resolutions for two, three, and even 10 years. Here are their secrets for making resolutions with sticking power.


Their Resolutions Revolve Around Small Changes

Fred Schebesta, cofounder of the personal finance comparison website finder.com, has kept the same resolution for the past 10 years: make one improvement every day, such as listening to audio books or removing apps from his smartphone that don’t improve his efficiency. “Being small, it has been easy to stick to but pivotal in my personal development and the growth of my business,” he says. “I figured that if you improve by 1% everyday, you will improve by 365% over a year. The changes you can make in a year through one small improvement are huge.”